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Courageous Listening

Courageous Listening

Perhaps it seems like both individuals within a marriage are responsible for arguments or violent outbursts. Both individuals point fingers at each other and neither one is innocent.  So where DO we start? We start by asking questions, listening carefully to each...
God and Gossip

God and Gossip

Last month we talked about the importance of talking to individuals separately. If bullying is happening in a marriage, there is no way to hear the truth with both of them in the same room at the same time. However, many pastors and people helpers cry, “Whoa! Whoa!...
Who’s at Fault?

Who’s at Fault?

Last month we addressed the hidden factors of differentials and punishment. Here’s one woman’s story of what happened following a traditional marriage counseling session: (Trigger Warning) “It was 10:30 at night on the interstate. He pulled over. We had a concealed...
2024 Mid-Summer Update

2024 Mid-Summer Update

We’re more than halfway through summer with an update on what God is doing through your gifts and prayers for Clarity in Action Ministries. This month Sydney will represent Clarity in Action Ministries at the Christian Chaplains and Coaching Conference in Charleston,...
Once You See It, You Can’t Unsee It

Once You See It, You Can’t Unsee It

Summer is a great time for road trips. Over the years, I’ve lost count of the hours and miles, but what I can tell you is that once children start pointing out yellow cars, you can’t unsee them. In the same way, once you begin to understand the dynamics of oppression,...