CLARITY IN ACTION
values and cares for victims of domestic abuse by providing resources to equip the local church in a Christ-honoring way.
It’s not the picture of the black eye;
that’s a picture, but it’s not the only one.
It’s the picture behind the pretty scenes
of flowers and family photographs.
I was one of those women. And I didn’t know.
Carrie
YOU CAN HELP!
PRAY
This is God’s work, done by human hands and hearts.
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ENGAGE IN LEARNING
Be ready and willing to change redemptively.
ENGAGE IN LEARNING
Be ready and willing to change redemptively.
INVITE
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You articulate so [clearly] the insidious nature of abuse: how manipulation, victim-distortion of abuse, and church leaders (unfortunately) can perpetuate abuse by minimizing it in the name of Jesus …
—A Child of God
Recent Articles
Bringing the light of Jesus to dark places of the world.
A Step Toward Change
If you’re not personally involved with oppressive relationships, but you love Jesus and His people, what difference can you make? Maybe you’ve been keeping up with Clarity in Action Ministries and providing prayer support. We are grateful! Or maybe you have talked...
Inquiring Minds Want to Know
Before we begin a new series, this needs to be addressed. Is Clarity in Action anti-male? Or Does Clarity see men as bad and women as good? Personally, I, Sydney, like men: good, kind men. I grew up with three brothers. I love my dad. I am married to a wonderful,...
The Alternative
We provided insight and resources for best practices when addressing oppressive relationships as a local church: using a team approach, prioritizing victim care, allowing for time and observation. What if that doesn’t happen? Sadly, many women seek help repeatedly...
Best Practices for Addressing Marital Oppression – Part 3
How do you know if you’ve been misled? Here’s part 3 of best practices: Time and Observation There are those who hesitate to believe or listen claiming there are “2 sides to every story.” Yes. And No. Once the wounded party is safe and provided for, best...
Best Practices for Addressing Marital Oppression – Part 2
In November we mentioned using a team-based approach to assist in oppressive marital relationships. Regardless of how we help, we have the same responsibility and priority. What is that priority? The victim’s safety, dignity, and care are the primary priority for each...
Best Practices for Addressing Marital Oppression – Part 1
The last several newsletters have focused on seeing a situation clearly, especially when each person has a different story. Last month we encouraged listening to individuals separately. This month we will begin to outline best practices. Protecting a victim and the...
Courageous Listening
Perhaps it seems like both individuals within a marriage are responsible for arguments or violent outbursts. Both individuals point fingers at each other and neither one is innocent. So where DO we start? We start by asking questions, listening carefully to each...
God and Gossip
Last month we talked about the importance of talking to individuals separately. If bullying is happening in a marriage, there is no way to hear the truth with both of them in the same room at the same time. However, many pastors and people helpers cry, “Whoa! Whoa!...
Who’s at Fault?
Last month we addressed the hidden factors of differentials and punishment. Here’s one woman’s story of what happened following a traditional marriage counseling session: (Trigger Warning) “It was 10:30 at night on the interstate. He pulled over. We had a concealed...
2024 Mid-Summer Update
We’re more than halfway through summer with an update on what God is doing through your gifts and prayers for Clarity in Action Ministries. This month Sydney will represent Clarity in Action Ministries at the Christian Chaplains and Coaching Conference in Charleston,...
Once You See It, You Can’t Unsee It
Summer is a great time for road trips. Over the years, I’ve lost count of the hours and miles, but what I can tell you is that once children start pointing out yellow cars, you can’t unsee them. In the same way, once you begin to understand the dynamics of oppression,...
An Opportunity for You
You may have noticed some accounts people give of their marriage situation can’t be reconciled. What you hear from one individual conflicts with what you hear from the other individual. This is typical of oppressive relationships. This is atypical of healthy...