by Clarity in Action | Dec 8, 2024 | Article
In November we mentioned using a team-based approach to assist in oppressive marital relationships. Regardless of how we help, we have the same responsibility and priority. What is that priority? The victim’s safety, dignity, and care are the primary priority for each...
by Clarity in Action | Nov 20, 2024 | Article
The last several newsletters have focused on seeing a situation clearly, especially when each person has a different story. Last month we encouraged listening to individuals separately. This month we will begin to outline best practices. Protecting a victim and the...
by Clarity in Action | Oct 12, 2024 | Article
Perhaps it seems like both individuals within a marriage are responsible for arguments or violent outbursts. Both individuals point fingers at each other and neither one is innocent. So where DO we start? We start by asking questions, listening carefully to each...
by Clarity in Action | Sep 13, 2024 | Article
Last month we talked about the importance of talking to individuals separately. If bullying is happening in a marriage, there is no way to hear the truth with both of them in the same room at the same time. However, many pastors and people helpers cry, “Whoa! Whoa!...
by Clarity in Action | Aug 14, 2024 | Article
Last month we addressed the hidden factors of differentials and punishment. Here’s one woman’s story of what happened following a traditional marriage counseling session: (Trigger Warning) “It was 10:30 at night on the interstate. He pulled over. We had a concealed...
by Clarity in Action | Jul 30, 2024 | Newsletter
We’re more than halfway through summer with an update on what God is doing through your gifts and prayers for Clarity in Action Ministries. This month Sydney will represent Clarity in Action Ministries at the Christian Chaplains and Coaching Conference in Charleston,...
by Clarity in Action | Jul 16, 2024 | Newsletter
Summer is a great time for road trips. Over the years, I’ve lost count of the hours and miles, but what I can tell you is that once children start pointing out yellow cars, you can’t unsee them. In the same way, once you begin to understand the dynamics of oppression,...
by Clarity in Action | Jun 30, 2024 | Article
You may have noticed some accounts people give of their marriage situation can’t be reconciled. What you hear from one individual conflicts with what you hear from the other individual. This is typical of oppressive relationships. This is atypical of healthy...
by Clarity in Action | Jun 18, 2024 | Newsletter
This mid-month newsletter is an opportunity to shine light on what is happening in the realm of marital domination. Our name, Clarity in Action, means something. Synonyms for “clarity” are: clearness, transparency, accuracy, precision. As we grow older, things...
by Clarity in Action | May 31, 2024 | Newsletter
As we head into summer, Clarity in Action Ministries needs financial support for 2 campaigns: Stocking our Victim Care Fund Covering conference fees to build awareness and educate local churches Below is a chart of how your gifts have been used by Clarity in Action...