by Clarity in Action | Dec 8, 2024 | Article
In November we mentioned using a team-based approach to assist in oppressive marital relationships. Regardless of how we help, we have the same responsibility and priority. What is that priority? The victim’s safety, dignity, and care are the primary priority for each...
by Clarity in Action | Nov 20, 2024 | Article
The last several newsletters have focused on seeing a situation clearly, especially when each person has a different story. Last month we encouraged listening to individuals separately. This month we will begin to outline best practices. Protecting a victim and the...
by Clarity in Action | Oct 12, 2024 | Article
Perhaps it seems like both individuals within a marriage are responsible for arguments or violent outbursts. Both individuals point fingers at each other and neither one is innocent. So where DO we start? We start by asking questions, listening carefully to each...
by Clarity in Action | Sep 13, 2024 | Article
Last month we talked about the importance of talking to individuals separately. If bullying is happening in a marriage, there is no way to hear the truth with both of them in the same room at the same time. However, many pastors and people helpers cry, “Whoa! Whoa!...
by Clarity in Action | Aug 14, 2024 | Article
Last month we addressed the hidden factors of differentials and punishment. Here’s one woman’s story of what happened following a traditional marriage counseling session: (Trigger Warning) “It was 10:30 at night on the interstate. He pulled over. We had a concealed...
by Clarity in Action | Jun 30, 2024 | Article
You may have noticed some accounts people give of their marriage situation can’t be reconciled. What you hear from one individual conflicts with what you hear from the other individual. This is typical of oppressive relationships. This is atypical of healthy...
